November 2025

A Meaningful Memorial

 

In the days and weeks following a death, the focus is often on the immediate logistics of a funeral. A Memorial Service, held perhaps weeks or months later, offers a different kind of space—one free from the time constraints and formality of a burial or cremation.

It is an opportunity for friends and family to gather when the initial intensity of grief has subsided, allowing for a more reflective, personalised, and truly celebratory commemoration of their life.

 

🌿 Finding the Right Time: Reasons for a Separate Memorial Service

A Memorial Service, held when you are ready, offers a gentle, necessary opportunity for reflection and collective remembrance.

It allows you to honour the person you lost without the immediate pressures of a funeral, focusing entirely on crafting a personal and meaningful tribute.

People often choose this path for compassionate and practical reasons:

 

A Simple, Private Committal 

If the initial burial or cremation was intentionally quiet and unattended, like a direct cremation,  the Memorial Ceremony can provide a time for all friends, colleagues, and community members to have a dedicated moment to gather and express their love.

 

Logistical and Travel Concerns

Choosing a later date can enable everyone adequate time to travel and be present without undue stress or rushing.

 

Generous Body Donation

For those who generously chose to donate their body to medical science, the Memorial service provides a dignified, loving ceremony focused purely on the life lived.

 

Remembering, when the physical body is not present

In circumstances where a loved one's body cannot be recovered, such as following an accident, the absence of a burial or cremation can make saying goodbye uniquely difficult.

In these sensitive situations, the Memorial Service can provide an  essential, physical focal point for grief. It provides a dignified and necessary space to gather, share memories, and collectively acknowledge the finality of the loss, offering a vital and compassionate path towards acceptance and closure.

 

Accommodating Large Attendance

When a person was widely known and loved, a Memorial Service can allow you to select a large, flexible venue to comfortably accommodate everyone who wishes to pay their respects.

 

For the family ....

In sensitive family situations, a separate Memorial Service can provide family branches or circles of friends to hold their own inclusive and heartfelt ceremony, ensuring they feel they had a chance to say goodbye.

 

Reclaiming the Ceremony

If the original service was restricted due to circumstances like past pandemic rules, the Memorial Service can provide an opportunity to finally hold the full, celebratory, and dignified tribute that was originally planned.

 

 

As an Accredited Humanist Funeral Celebrant, I believe every life is unique and deserves to be remembered in a way that is honest, heartfelt, and tells their life story.

 

I will work closely with you to craft a ceremony that tells the story of your loved one, focusing entirely on their personality, passions, achievements, and the love they shared.

There is no set format; whether you envision a quiet gathering with poignant readings, a lively event full of favourite music and anecdotes, or something in between, we can create a personal, and a fitting tribute to the remarkable person you are remembering.

    13th April 2025   Bakewell, Derbyshire

                                                              Planning a Memorial Ceremony or Ashes Scattering Ceremony                                                                                                           

I'm about to upload a new video on my YouTube channel about planning a Memorial Ceremony or Ashes Scattering Ceremony. 
The video is set in Bakewell, Derbyshire and Chatsworth House, Derbyshire. I present some of my own recollections and memories as I reminisce and  consider the meaningful places that could be a place for a gathering for a memorial service.

 

 

 

Here are the links to accompany the video                     Here's a link to my YouTube channel

March 31st 2025

My latest vlog is on YouTube and it's about 'Connecting senses and Grief'

Let me know what you think and what you would like to see on my channel. I am planning a new video, set in Bakewell, Derbyshire, a place that holds special memories for me....Anne 

https://youtu.be/3R-m6GQRdu0?si=dCZR8h90rpLxjKYA

 

March 30th 2025, Mother's Day

My lovely Mum, 98 years old and I am fortunate to have spent these years with her and 57 Mother's Days !
Things are different, Mum is in care and has Dementia: a living bereavement, though she is 'always my friend, always my Mum'.

For some, it's a difficult day - for those whose Mum has died, for those who have lost their children, for those with difficult relationships, for those who hope to be a Mum, those who choose not to be a Mum. 
My thoughts are with you.....Anne 

 

March 6th 2025

I decorated this display tree with flowers and birds, as an alternative to an alter piece, for someone who loved Daffodils and Birds. 
Attention to detail is so important in creating something special and meaningful, as you say your farewell .... Anne 

February 4th 2025

Here's a link to the Derbyshire Funerals video. Filmed by Brooklands Aerial Media at Stubbing Pond and Smithy Pond, Wingerworth, Derbyshire in January 2025. The video is an introduction to the services that I offer and explains the 'Life Story' concept that I've shared on this website. 

You'll see some footage of me and my Mum, looking through some old photographs, sharing precious time together, making memories and creating a Life Story scrapbook. There's some drone footage over Bolsover Castle, Matlock Tor and Matlock Bath.

If you have any questions, if you think I can help, then please get in touch, thank you    Anne

 

https://youtu.be/rwJXngDqV0g?si=gdmtN7Q3Yh2D28QG

 

 

 

January 27th 2025

The video presentation for Derbyshire Funerals is almost ready to share.

Here are some pictures that I've put together for a 'slide show' within the Life Story section of the video.....    Anne

January 17th 2025

I'm delighted to share my latest news; I've completed my training with Obitus Academy.

This will enable me to access their extensive library collection of  Music, Tributes, Streaming and Keepsakes

to add  to your Ceremony.

January 16th 2025

I've created a storyboard  for a new video presentation outlining the aims and vision for a LifeStory commemoration.

The video will be filmed locally ( weather permitting ) and in partnership with Brooklands Aerial Media

I'm hoping to share this soon 

January 2025 update

If you're going through a tough time right now, I hope you're doing okay and the new year brings you some peace and comfort

 

I wrote a brief article about Humanist Funeral Ceremonies. It's about how Humanist funerals can be a meaningful way to celebrate the life of someone who has died. They can be tailored to the individual's beliefs and values, and can be a source of comfort for those who are grieving.

If you're interested in learning more about Humanist funerals, I would be happy to answer any questions you have.

 

Humanist Funeral Ceremonies in Derbyshire

December 2024 update

I'm delighted to be able to share that I am a member of the National Burial Alliance, 'an alliance of natural burial and green funeral professionals, united in the common purpose of promoting greener funeral practices across the UK and focuses on education, continuing professional development, raising awareness of natural burial and encouraging greener funeral practices'. They also 'list UK natural burial grounds and green funeral suppliers in their online directory, and  publish regular guides and blogs to inspire your eco funeral planning.

November 2024 update

Woodland Burial Site, Chesterfield

I was honoured to have been asked to lead a Ceremony at the Woodland Burial site in Chesterfield.

I took some time to walk around the site prior to the day of the Ceremony.

 

Granville's Wood

It's such a beautiful and serene place; you could be anywhere, surrounded by native trees and nature

October 2024 

I'm constantly working to provide the best services for our families and I'm thrilled to announce some of the latest news and developments.

New Website Launch

I'm delighted to share that our new website is now live! Designed with clients in mind, the website showcases unique Funeral Celebrant services and allows easy access to information about our offerings.

Community Engagement

I've been actively engaging with the local community by meeting with Funeral Directors in the area and developing a local network.

Building strong relationships within the industry enables me to better serve our clients and create meaningful ceremonies.

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